Should I marry my girlfriend, she got pregnant, just after we broke up?

I have been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months and during this time she was going through a divorce, and I helped her financially and emotionally to pass through this phase. I reiterated to her several times we can’t have sex w/o condoms, but she told me that she is allergic to latex, and prefer bare back. I tried to resist her not to have sex, saying that we should wait until marriage, though sometimes we just got carried away, and did it anyways. Now she is 2 wks pregnant, and she says she will raise the baby, even though I have broken up with her. we still talk, though I told her I am not ready for marriage yet, and plus she can’t get married until 6 months (divorce law) ; Also I am from Asia, and she is from US, so I don’t know how it would apply to me legally – in terms of child support etc. I do want to help my girlfriend in whatever way I can; I am 28 and she is 25, do i have to marry her (she still loves me & would like to), just because of the child; please advice.

how do you know it is your child? I guess this is a lesson for you to learn.
You don’t have to marry her unless you love her and want to marry her. In this country no one makes anyone marry anyone.
If you aren’t ready to marry, then be engaged and see how things work out.
Just be sure you marry her because you want to and not becasue you feel obligated. This is a free country you know. You have choices. And please NO quilt if you don’t want to marry her.

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