How should I treat my husband who is disabled it is very violent and physical language?

I have been married nine months to a disabled man. I help in everything she does — bathing, changing clothes, transport equipment, medicines, etc. Clean lot, but always found something wrong with what I do or what I'm saying? And when it gets too crazy, hit me with his staff of four in the head, on my back, thighs, legs,> feet, etc?

In case a joke, you're a twisted and sick need serious help. If this is not a joke — both need therapy to learn to deal with caring for someone with a disability all day, and teach him to not take the frustration felt due to the limitations on you. And above the person who said that nobody in their right to marry a disabled person, this is not true! My cousin Aurora has cerebral palsy (a mild form, walks with crutches and has difficulty speaking) and has a very loving husband and wonderful and two beautiful children! There are special people in this world who are willing to care for another soul, no matter what are its limitations can be!

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